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How To Attract Love

Posted by Catherine Morgan on February 14, 2007

If You Want To Attract Love, Be A Loving Person — by Catherine Morgan

Did you ever notice that angry people tend to attract other angry people? That greedy people, enjoy the company of other greedy people? Just like we choose to associate with people in our lives that have similar interests as we do, we are also unconsciously choosing people that are putting out that same emotional “frequency” as we do.

So, who cares? Well, you should. That is; if you are interested in “attracting” people into your life that are kind, caring, and loving, and not angry, bitter, and hateful.

It’s all about awareness. If you are attracting negative people into your life, it is most likely that you are putting out negative “energy”, and you are most likely doing that because you are feeling negative “emotions”. If you are aware of that, you can work on putting out more positive energy, by choosing to feel more positive emotions. It is really very simple.

Basically, perception is everything. Ten people will experience the same situation ten different ways. Not because it happened ten different ways, but because they perceived it in ten different ways. Just like the proverbial “glass is half ____”, what? What were you going to say? Full? Empty?

If we walk through life unconsciously, life will come to us the same way. But, if we choose to be conscious of our feelings and emotions, we can help attract the life we want. It isn’t an exact science. But, if you want to attract love into your life, be a loving person, have loving feeling, have loving emotions. Just by being conscious of your feelings and your emotions, you are altering the frequencies you are putting out into the world. So, think about it for a minute. What frequencies were you putting out today? Loving? Kind?

The good thing is, that we do control our perceptions. Not much else though, you know how it is, we always feel we have no control over our lives. Well, that is because we really don’t have any control over our lives. However, how we “perceive” our out of control lives….that we do have control over. Not too much of a consolation, you say? Except that we can decide if we are going to be a happy, loving person, or an angry, bitter one. That’s a pretty big deal.

Once you decide what type of person you are going to choose to be, then you will know what type of person you will attract into your life. Just like the “frequencies” on a radio, if you want country music, you need to find that frequency. If you want Pop or Rock music, but you keep tuning into the frequency that plays country, well you are going to get _____. Right, country. Once you find the right “emotional” frequency, others with that frequency will be attracted to you.

So, if you want to attract love…..you need to be a loving person. Start by loving yourself, being grateful for the things you have. Once you can do that, start replacing angry or negative emotions, with positive loving emotions. Choose your reactions to life and work and family, in a positive loving way. When the “frequencies” you are putting out change, what you will attract to yourself will also change.

Just give it a try. It can’t hurt. So you were more loving and kind for a couple of days, no harm. But? What if there really is something to this crazy talk? What if you really can attract the love you have always wanted? You will never know, if you don’t give it a try.

Good Luck.

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12 Responses to “How To Attract Love”

  1. Kathrine said

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  5. If You Want To Attract Love, Be A Loving Person. …

    Did you ever notice that angry people tend to attract other angry people? That greedy people, enjoy the company of other greedy people? Just like we choose to associate with people in our lives that have similar interests as we do, we are also unconsci…

  6. jo said

    im new to tthis site and i really enjoyed all the articles. i would really like to talk to cathrine morgan. she seems to be a really neat and cool person. ms morgan if you dont mind talking to me please email me. at mcinnamon98@aol.com

  7. David said

    I like your blog. Very down to earth and straight to the point. I am a caring, giving, sharing man, who is also very romantic and passionate…seeking his soul mate. I meet and attract a lot of women. I’m starting to find a pattern where women who want to be fixed, made happy, or for their problems in life to go away. seem to wind up in my lap. I can’t fix anybody. I’ very stable and well educated, and most women think I have it all. I don’t know why this keeps happening and what to do to avoid this and attract the kind of woman I really want. Please help. This is getting very painful. Thanks. David

  8. David said

    Why is it that some women who see and feel your compassion, gentleness, tenderness and soft touch take it as an opportunity to get all they can from you emotionally, only for you to find they just don’t have it themselves and can’t give what they’ve been wanting? It’s a real let down once you get to know the person. Once you’re on to them, you say to yourself, “Here I go again?” Thanks. David

  9. David Hammock said

    I’m very much a people person who also enjoys a degree of solitude. Sometimes I’m a “Let’s get on with the show” kinda guy, while at others….I’m more laid back. Lot’s of women like me. But when it comes down to commitment, putting in the time necessary to “Have” a relationship….many women aren’t willing to pay the price and I’m sure many men aren’t either. I believe everything in life comes down to: 1-Desire; 2-Motivation and 3-Willingness to pay the price…no matter what it is, to make something work. Why don’t people get this? Relationships don’t just happen. Intimacy just doesn’t happen with the snap of a finger. A few of of us men, understand a little more about women than is known. Thanks. David

  10. sweetie619 said

    quite interesting read and some of the comments too, because i was in a three year relationship where i did all the work and when he dumped me spent five months trying to get him to talk and try to work things out to no avail. I tried so hard even though i still got hurt whilst trying only for him to walk away like i meant nothing. Jo.

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