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What children think the meaning of LOVE is:


If You Want To Attract Love, Be A Loving Person


How To Attract Love

If You Want To Attract Love, Be A Loving Person — by Catherine Morgan

Did you ever notice that angry people tend to attract other angry people? That greedy people, enjoy the company of other greedy people? Just like we choose to associate with people in our lives that have similar interests as we do, we are also unconsciously choosing people that are putting out that same emotional “frequency” as we do.

So, who cares? Well, you should. That is; if you are interested in “attracting” people into your life that are kind, caring, and loving, and not angry, bitter, and hateful.

It’s all about awareness. If you are attracting negative people into your life, it is most likely that you are putting out negative “energy”, and you are most likely doing that because you are feeling negative “emotions”. If you are aware of that, you can work on putting out more positive energy, by choosing to feel more positive emotions. It is really very simple.

Basically, perception is everything. Ten people will experience the same situation ten different ways. Not because it happened ten different ways, but because they perceived it in ten different ways. Just like the proverbial “glass is half ____”, what? What were you going to say? Full? Empty?

If we walk through life unconsciously, life will come to us the same way. But, if we choose to be conscious of our feelings and emotions, we can help attract the life we want. It isn’t an exact science. But, if you want to attract love into your life, be a loving person, have loving feeling, have loving emotions. Just by being conscious of your feelings and your emotions, you are altering the frequencies you are putting out into the world. So, think about it for a minute. What frequencies were you putting out today? Loving? Kind?

The good thing is, that we do control our perceptions. Not much else though, you know how it is, we always feel we have no control over our lives. Well, that is because we really don’t have any control over our lives. However, how we “perceive” our out of control lives….that we do have control over. Not too much of a consolation, you say? Except that we can decide if we are going to be a happy, loving person, or an angry, bitter one. That’s a pretty big deal.

Once you decide what type of person you are going to choose to be, then you will know what type of person you will attract into your life. Just like the “frequencies” on a radio, if you want country music, you need to find that frequency. If you want Pop or Rock music, but you keep tuning into the frequency that plays country, well you are going to get _____. Right, country. Once you find the right “emotional” frequency, others with that frequency will be attracted to you.

So, if you want to attract love…..you need to be a loving person. Start by loving yourself, being grateful for the things you have. Once you can do that, start replacing angry or negative emotions, with positive loving emotions. Choose your reactions to life and work and family, in a positive loving way. When the “frequencies” you are putting out change, what you will attract to yourself will also change.

Just give it a try. It can’t hurt. So you were more loving and kind for a couple of days, no harm. But? What if there really is something to this crazy talk? What if you really can attract the love you have always wanted? You will never know, if you don’t give it a try.

Good Luck.


THE FOLLOWING IS INFORMATION ON DOMESTIC VIOLENCE – Taken from my original post on this subject “How Do You Know If You Are In An Abusive Relationship?

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If you or someone you know is in a physically or emotionally abusive relationship, there is a lot of information available and people that can help. Below is an article and links to help you understand domestic violence and abuse, and to find help. You are not alone.

Spousal Abuse Still a Problem for Women – from blogs by women

According to a recent survey, approximately one in four women over the age of 65 have been abused either sexually, physically, or psychologically. Furthermore, a survey of 370 women showed that approximately 26.5% of women experienced some form of violence from their partner and 3.5% of these women had undergone this abuse within the past 5%.

These statistics demonstrate that, although women have come a long way in the last several decades, many are still choosing to remain in relationships with abusive mates. This is often because the abusive spouse or mate will go through periods of time during which he is kind and reminds the woman of the man she fell in love with. These sneak peaks into the once kindhearted man she knew causes the woman to hang on in hopes that he is finally back for good. In addition, many women make excuses for their mates and actually justify the abuse they suffer.

Fortunately, the number of resources available to a woman suffering from abuse is plentiful. Of course, in an emergency situation, a woman can dial 911 in order to get help. But, she can also call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. The hotline is available 24 hours per day, ever day of the year. By calling the hotline, women suffering from abuse will be referred to nearby agencies that will provide them with help and a safe haven – this includes women that are fleeing from abuse along with their children.



Information On Domestic Violence

How Do You Know If You Are In An Abusive Relationship?

Warning Signs Of An Abusive Relationship

Teens And Abusive Relationships

Helping A Friend In An Abusive Relationship

Information For Women On Child Custody


9 Responses to “LOVE”

  1. Use this section to send me your stories, and your thoughts. If you have any links that you think I should include on this page, please send me those too.


  2. amazon707 said

    nice site… 🙂

  3. “Amazon707” — Thanks, I’m happy you like it.

  4. goldenferi said

    THis is so true. If you end up around people who do not have the same frequency as you, especially angry people, it can have a terrible effect on you. I had this experience earlier with a group and I really lost myself.

  5. I know what you mean, it sounds crazy, but it is really true. Thanks for the comment.

  6. […] I accomplish my current challenge in my life. However, I was inspired by Catherine’s page, Women 4 Hope: Love and I had to write this. In this page, she listed sites that gives you information about signs of […]

  7. Larry said

    Once I started living by this principle it changed my circumstances and it made my life better.

    Nice post.

  8. Thanks for all the comments, I’m glad you like the site. You might also like my other site “Be The Change You Want To See In Yourself”…some of the post are from here…but most are original to the site.


    Thanks for stopping by….hope you will stop again.


  9. malek 9 said

    hoe are you women

    tank you for these


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